Long-Term Marital Satisfaction: Couples’ Narratives of The Role of Mate Selection

Background: long-term marital satisfaction depends on various factors in couples’ lives. shared interests, beliefs, and goals can guarantee couples’ long and satisfying relationships. however, mate selection is one of the primary requirements for establishing a marital relationship in both modern and traditional societies. based on the narratives of couples, the present study aimed to explore the role of mate selection in marital satisfaction. methods: this study employed a qualitative narrative research design. the participants were couples who lived together at least for 10 years, were satisfied with their married life, and had children. they were selected through the purposive sampling method from the family entertainment centers of health houses affiliated with qom municipality, in 2019. the data were generated using in-depth in-person interviews. after interviewing 13 couples, theoretical saturation was obtained. the data were recorded, transcribed, and analyzed manually using the textual analytic approach. results: the analysis of the participants’ narratives showed that the couples believed that four main themes, including spouse personality traits, shared religious beliefs, shared socioeconomic positions, and mutual respect and understanding affected their marital satisfaction. conclusion: the couples who were satisfied with their marriage believed that realistic and correct mate selection played a vital role in the survival and stability of their marital life. it is very important to pay attention to the role and conditions of mate selection and its impact on the stability of marriage. results from this study help counselors, couples’ therapists, mental health professionals, psychiatric nurses, and midwifery consultants prepare couples for premarital programs.